pre-wedding preparations

A colleague of mine asked about my wedding preparations. I almost felt she was chiding me when she said she was very busy a few months before her wedding (which seemed to imply I should be too). Hmmm. Well, I don't really care. No, not the wedding but for the fact that I MUST be up to my neck with the preparations.

I think it just depends on your expectations. I would love for a perfect wonderful wedding, but not at the risk of getting stressed, taking it out on D, enjoying the excitement of planning, or worst still, not enjoying the day itself. I'm sure more things would come at me later but maybe I'll just revel in the madness of it all. It's like swimming. You can't submerge underwater for too long, you'll have to come up for breather some time or another. I just like to think I'm taking loooonnng breaths now.

I just want to enjoy myself. I just want to be a happy bride, with my happy friends and family. I want to look back and remember all these instead of the stress, or worst still nothing because I have been too caught up with the logistics.

Anyway, the wedding is only for a day (and sometimes it's for others' sake instead) and a marriage is for a lifetime.

Me... I'm thinking of my new journey ahead with D.